不見棺材不落淚 [ㄅㄨˋ ㄐㄧㄢˋ ㄍㄨㄢ ㄘㄞˊ ㄅㄨˋ ㄌㄨㄛˋ ㄌㄟˋ; bu4 jian4 guan1 cai2 bu4 luo4 lei4] fig. not to shed a tear until one sees the coffin (idiom); lit. refuse to be convinced until one is faced with grim reality ◄ ►