冤家宜解不宜結 [ㄩㄢ ㄐㄧㄚ ㄧˊ ㄐㄧㄝˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄧˊ ㄐㄧㄝˊ; yuan1 jia1 yi2 jie3 bu4 yi2 jie2] It is better to squash enmity rather than keeping it alive (proverb) ◄ ►