大丈夫能屈能伸 [ㄉㄚˋ ㄓㄤˋ ˙ㄈㄨ ㄋㄥˊ ㄑㄩ ㄋㄥˊ ㄕㄣ; da4 zhang4 fu5 neng2 qu1 neng2 shen1] A leader can submit or can stand tall as required. ready to give and take flexible ◄ ►