隔岸觀火 [ㄍㄜˊ ㄢˋ ㄍㄨㄢ ㄏㄨㄛˇ; ge2 an4 guan1 huo3] to watch the fires burning across the river to delay entering the fray until all others have been exhausted by fighting amongst themselves (idiom) ◄ ►