con·de·scen·sion /ˌkɑndɪˈsɛn(t)ʃən/
  謙虛,硬要人家領情的態度
  Con·de·scen·sion n.  The act of condescending; voluntary descent from one's rank or dignity in intercourse with an inferior; courtesy toward inferiors.
     It forbids pride . . . and commands humility, modesty, and condescension to others.   --Tillotson.
     Such a dignity and condescension . . . as are suitable to a superior nature.   --Addison.
  Syn: -- Complaisance; courtesy; affability.
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  condescension
       n 1: the trait of displaying arrogance by patronizing those
            considered inferior [syn: superciliousness, disdainfulness]
       2: a communication that indicates lack of respect by
          patronizing the recipient [syn: disdain, patronage]
       3: affability to your inferiors and temporary disregard for
          differences of position or rank; "the queen's
          condescension was intended to make us feel comfortable"
          [syn: condescendingness]