嫁雞隨雞 [ㄐㄧㄚˋ ㄐㄧ ㄙㄨㄟˊ ㄐㄧ; jia4 ji1 sui2 ji1] If you marry a chicken, follow the chicken (idiom); A woman should follow whatever her husband orders. We must learn to accept the people around us. ◄ ►