蠟燭不點不亮 [ㄌㄚˋ ㄓㄨˊ ㄅㄨˋ ㄉㄧㄢˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄌㄧㄤˋ; la4 zhu2 bu4 dian3 bu4 liang4] some people have to be pushed for them to take action ◄ ►